don't worry about those who don't
Nov 15, 2024
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Don't worry about those who don't...
My grandpa (I call him Pop) gave me some profound advice at the start of my entrepreneurial career as a strength and conditioning coach.
He said, "Don't worry about those who don't."
I said, "What do you mean, Pop?"
He said, "Some people want to workout, some don't. Don't worry about those who don't."
I didn't like this advice when I first heard it.
I wanted to help people. If you don't workout, I want to convince you of the benefits.
I didn't listen to him.
I built programs that took every psychological element I could find to help people start and stick to programs.
I tried hard to convince friends, family, and colleagues to workout and eat healthy.
I wanted to save people.
It was a constant uphill battle with very little progress made.
Then, I dove into personal development and I heard Jim Rohn say the exact same thing. Jim Rohn calls it mysteries of the mind.
Some people do and some people don't.
That's when I realized there is a difference between being a leader and being a savior.
As a business owner, I am a leader.
I am not a savior.
If your leadership style isn't helping you move forward, try something else. Being a savior is exhausting, and it doesn't build a business.